On the Other Side

Girl crush, always & forever. No one let me cut my hair like this and now it's getting played.

I had no idea so many people wore clothing made out of latex... Like a lot of people. I find it a little bizarre. I only know this thanks to some research on GaGa's god-awful Alejandro video. Like really, other than when she ate the rosary I didn't like it at all. She is trying too hard to make "art". And it makes real art look flimsy. I need her to win me back again because I want to love her again. I really did love her, sigh.

I cannot talk about how perfect this is.


One guess as to why this might be even more perfect.
A cool designer who I don't know that well made this, feel free to check it.

I had a bunch of stuff to say but I feel le tired.
I'll try and keep it short, for all our sakes.

At my internship, I sit for a large part of the day at my desk. Across from me sits the other intern, so naturally we talk a lot. I mean, we're there for hours. Plus we're females. So anyway, I think I've finally begun to see both sides of so many general life situations, whereas I previously only saw my own. I think this is a result of her stories and just me growing up/getting older I suppose. For example, she'd talk about how frustrated she'd get when the guy she was seeing previously wouldn't text her, call her, or just ignore her in general...but they'd get along so well in person, it made very little sense. I can relate. Then, a few days later after thinking about this she realized she had been doing the same thing to the guy who liked her currently. Not because she didn't care. Not because she was even ignoring him. He just didn't fit the way the guy did before. He was cuter, nicer, smarter... all of the above. And she really does care. But for some reason she couldn't really put the effort into it. Yet, I can relate to that too and they're opposite attitudes.

I have had so many people frustrate me. Hasn't everyone? Not just guys, but people in general. Employers who don't answer phone calls or emails. School partners on a project who don't work as hard as I do. Little actions and tasks that just make me angry because I know I would have handled them better had I been in charge of taking care of excecuting them. But, to be honest, aren't we all guilty of playing both sides? Obviously if I'm being frustrated, someone's frustrating me. At one point however, that person has been frustrated by someone else. And I'm no saint myself. I've ignored calls. I've ignored emails. I've never slacked off on projects that affect other people, but that's just me.

It's just easy to get frustrated, but it must be so much easier to do the frustrating since we're all victims of it constantly.

Karma is a bitch, I pray to God she always haunts you.
-Gym Class Heroes

*I'm not condoning this, I just think it seems to happen a lot.
♥ Lini.

ps: I ♥ this song. I'm not sure how I feel about B.o.B yet, but this is contagious, thanks Pepper for contaminating me!