To avoid the longest post in the century, I will not get into the seemingly endless male behaviors which either confuse, appall, or fascinate me. I wish I could understand the basis of their appeal, and ask me if it's remotely possible to stay away. My most recent confusion is really getting to me though, and perhaps some wiser being out there could shed some light?
WHY, WHY would you get some girls number at a club and then text and call her nonstop? Before I further divulge into this let me just throw in some details:
1. These boys dance with various people throughout the night. You cannot POSSIBLY have that much time and interest in contacting all these females.
2. As club dwellers, they like to show off their very best: be it money, clothes, dance skills, social connections, sky-high bar tabs, etc. Other then the trully hopeless, they mostly have at least a few redeeming qualities and therefore have NO need to act so desperate and creepy.
3. I am willing to bet there is a perfectly cute, sweet, and smart girl ripping her hair out waiting for any one of these boys to text her. Yet they insist on texting complete strangers they barely know, asking them all about their life, and then asking when they're gonna hang out.
...here's just a thought. Maybe I'm crazy, but why wouldn't you call the girl waiting for you? She'd actually like being texted or contacted by you and not laugh and show are her friends what a loser with no game you are (Yes. This really does happen. A lot.) And the girl you're texting so desperately doesn't really care and is also probably waiting for another guy she's actually into (Or hey, might even know?) to call her. So why continue on this vicious road? We only humiliate ourselves and make meaningless conections at the cost of people who trully care about us. So why. Just...why?
2 comments:
WALTER!
I LOVE this.
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